Project UnLonely Films Season 8

Normal Sucks

Pascui Rivas

A short documentary about the tyranny of “normal” and the power of different.

This film contains scenes or descriptions related to illness and self-harm or suicidality. May not be suitable for younger audiences. Viewer discretion is advised.

About The Film

Watch this video to hear from the filmmaker about their film, what they hope people will take away from it, and how they think films can connect us.

Meet the Filmmaker

What is their why?

Pascui Rivas is an award-winning film and commercial Director, Producer and Editor, and is a member of the Directors Guild of America (DGA) and #FreeTheWork. He has been shaping the U.S. Hispanic landscape directing and editing over 200 national broadcast commercials, award-winning documentaries and music videos, working with Latin artists like Natalia Lafourcade, Estados Alterados, Goyo/ChocQuibtown, Soledad Pastorutti and Wisin. Pascui helped create the Soccer documentary series Phenoms, and Directed the global feature documentary Ordinary Gods, spoken in 9 languages and shot in 8 countries — both projects for Disney/Fox. His work has been recognized in Tribeca, Santa Barbara (SBIFF), Mar del Plata, Shanghai International Film Festivals, among others, as well as in most Latino Film festivals in the US (LAILFF, NYILFF/HBO). Most Recently, Pascui’s documentary Normal Sucks, based on the book by neurodiverse author Jonathan Mooney, was showcased at the UCLA Friends of Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior.

Jonathan Mooney – Co-Writer / Self: I’m a dyslexic writer, speaker, and do-gooder who did not learn to read until 12 years old. I faced a number of low expectations growing up—was told I would flip burgers, be a high school drop out and end up in jail. Needless to say, their hopeful prophecies didn’t come to pass. Opposed to being a high school drop out, I became a college graduate from Brown University with an honors degree in English lit; instead of flipping burgers I ended up writing books, the first of which I wrote at the end of the 23 as an undergrad; and instead of becoming an inmate I become an advocate creating organizations and initiatives that help people who get the short end of the stick. I’ve won many awards for all of this —The Harry S. Truman fellowship for public services, Finalist for a Rhodes Scholarship, LA Achievement award from The Lab school of Washington where I shared the stage with Vice President Joe Biden—and been featured in/on HBO, NPR, The New York Times, NBC, Fast Company, and many other media outlets. What I’m most proud of is not that I proved some people how doubted me wrong—but that I proved the many people—my mom, a teacher named Mr. R, my wife Rebecca—right, not just about my potential but about the potential for all of us who live and learn differently.

“Having grown up in with a persistent level of unpredictability, I have always been interested in stories where familial and social support plays a crucial role in someone’s triumph in life. As author Jonathan Mooney says, “who someone becomes is not up to them, it is up to all of us.” I decided to make this film because my friend Jonathan Mooney was about to release his book Normal Sucks and said in passing that he wanted “to make some video about it.” I asked to read it and after finishing it I was moved to tears. I called him up and said we had to make a short documentary about his story growing up with dyslexia and his experiences learning to live way above his circumstances.”

My friend and author, Jonathan Mooney, had just finished writing the book, “Normal Sucks.” I remembered texting him right away after reading it because the book had moved me to tears, and saying “at the very least, I think your story should be a documentary.” What I hope people take away from this film is inspiration, encouragement, and knowing that despite how hard life can be for many of us, there’s always a path forward.

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4 Comments

  1. Thomas J Villa

    Interesting and inspiring. Thank you Mr. Mooney for sharing your story to help open hearts and minds.
    In response to the film, please consider that the language used in the school report mentioned early in the film was not negative or hurtful. It was clinical language – – objective and descriptive in nature – – used to identify/diagnose developmental differences that might warrant attention. The report was not meant to be read to a young person such as yourself, at least not without appropriate explanation. It sounds as if our public schools failed you. Every family deserves the freedom to decide for itself where and how best to educate its children. School choice for all is the solution. Also, please do not repeat what you said to students at the end of the film, that “normal people suck.” We have far too much divisiveness in society today. Please consider other, more positive ways to inspire children. With that said, thank you and keep inspiring others!

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  2. Anonymous

    I’m a teacher who retired after 43 years in elementary education. I know the Parental Rights Act gave families the power to enroll their developmentally different child in a general ed. classroom. Most importantly what didn’t happen, along with that legislation, was enlightenment of legislators about the fact that each and every one of us does possess a special talent or special interest, or special strength that needs to be recognized and nurtured. Nevermind the test scores to evaluate the number of individuals who have met the arbitrary educational standards. As teachers, so many of us try to deemphasize the numbers expected of a regulated curriculum so that we have time to nourish the unique talent in each of our students. Unfortunately that is not an aspect of education that is valued as much as those wretched test scores.

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  3. Rachel Edith Watstein

    I was told from a very young age to never be normal, that normal was boring. That is a huge pressure to live up to and a huge alineator. I didn’t have any options but to be different. There are areas where I would have liked to fit in, but that was boring…and it also took me out of the capacity to have “normal” experiences and “normal” relationships because I would be boring so there was a massive amount of isolation and being misunderstood.

    I now pride myself on the unique aspects of myself that are not “normal” but to grow up with such pressure and a lack of acceptance by so many including myself, destroyed what could have been worthy parts of who I could have been forever.

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  4. Martha

    I agree with the comments above – “normal” can seem boring or unreasonable or a poor ideal – but making it a negative word is just as bad as making those other ones (like dyslexic or learning disabled or unacademic) negative! We need to accept that everyone is different, with different strengths and weaknesses.

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